The connectors all have a little tab/finger that has to be pressed down/in to let the two separate. If you do have a resistance error in the circuit, checking the resistances may be the answer. Do not test the pins for the connector leading to the air bag, that can deploy the bag. Test the side leading away from the seat. You should disconnect the battery first before any testing, waiting ten minutes first. You should find almost no resistance going to the air bag module from any of the air bag connectors(not air bag).
I don't know what the common causes of the errors are, they seem to point to the wrong resistance. I know that almost each year uses different connectors, so swapping air bags and resistors is not possible. The resistors are not stocked at Ford, and cost about $10. That could be a good test to compare your air bag to the resistor. I have a 2000 sensor that should have fit my supposedly 2000 model harness. It didn't fit, so my body harness is likely another model year.