I understand the confusion man, its easily made when chatting on line.
Pictures rule and have helped to sort out many issues like these over the years....some guys even go buy a disposable camera, then have the film developed at Walgreens or the grpcery store where you can have them put on a CD or emailed to you jsut so we could all get on the same page.
What counts is that you found the relays now, I got $$$ that says there is your issue, but always be sure to check the wiring around them as well, a 88 BII is OLD these days and wiring gets old too
Hell I just fixed a 98 Prelude, my friends car was cutting out on her, it would just die, everything looked brand new 100%, all connections were good, except there was a bit of corrossion inside one of her battery clamp on terminals, cleaned it up, car has been fixed ever since.....so its not always easy to find no matter how much you look or know what to look for.