I'm to the point of not trusting shop w/ putting my wheel's on unless I've been there b4 and I know they torque correctly. We have a pretty big air compressor in our garage w/ an impact wrench, there's been a couple of time's that our impact wrench on it highest setting wouldn't get the lug-nut off. If u can't get the lug-nut off w/ an impact wrench, w/ the psi set up too high, how on earth could u get it off in the night, on the side of the road, w/ the crappy tool's Ford supplies to change a tire?
My friend wanted some help w/ his 99 Jetta, and I had to take his front wheel off for better access. The impact wrench couldn't get it, I turned the psi up (I know it bad, but it was at night and I didn't want to have to jack his car up again in the morning), still nothing. Got my dad's breaker bar out, broke one loose, on the second lug-nut I broke the actual impact socket.
My friend and I thought it was pretty cool because neither of us had broken an impact socket b4, let alone w/o an impact wrench. Then my dad came out to help, he didn't think it was as cool.
So now whenever I have a place do something w/ my wheel's I make sure that they aren't over tightened, and if they are I make them re-torque my lug-nuts.