Seeing 230 scared the crap out of me so even though I am on the road I took some actions. I mounted a hayden electric fan and thermostatic controller on the trans cooler which is the largest I've found at 25,000+ GVWR I forget the exact dimensions of it but it's half the width of the stock radiator and maybe 2 inches shorter so it's fairly large.
After mounting the fan I saw little to no change, I did not have the heat shields on the exhaust were it passes the bell housing so I bought heat wrap and double wrapped it there. My trans cooler was also mounted right against the radiator I noticed with the electric fan I mouted there was no air flow so I moved the cooler out and hung it off the bottom of the support in front of the radiator and remounted the fan to it. I saw 230 once again in New Mexico where it was rather warm and I was going up a 5 - 6% grade for over 3 miles with the explorer loaded to the brim and a cargo carrier hanging off my hitch fully loaded and crap on the roof so I was hauling some weight,. After that last time it didn't pass 190, I started taking precautions though. Getting as much speed going down a hill so I could take it easy going up the next hill. I'm wishing I had spent the money on a 5spd manual swap when my automatic had gone before, all this high heat it has been seeing scares the crap outta me.
Fluid, which is mobil 1 Merc V synth with lube gaurd, is still a bright bright red, doesn't smell burnt, doesn't seem effected at all.