I have added a 4 gauge wire from B+ side of Alternator to + post of battery.
I have added a 4 gauge wire from Alternator bracket to - post of battery.
Only difference is now the voltmeter stays consistently in the low end of things. It won't come up to where it used to sit when it was normal. After work tonight, I'm going to go by Wal-Mart and buy a tester and see where the volts are sitting at different points. I have one at home but I forgot to bring it with me to college. I think I'm just going to have to test everything and see where the problem is.
I did have another idea though, if the headlights dim when the voltmeter dims, that would mean that "failure" of volts is happening along a power wire they both see. Where would that be?
Oh, and the headlight switch was replaced over the Summer, I double checked it a few weeks ago when I was installing a switch for something and it looked fine (it was doing this back then as well)
Also, where is the ground for the dash electronics?? There's got to be one up underneath there somewhere.