I think that you are lucky to be alive, so at least be thankful for that. A vehicle can be replaced, whereas a human life can not. In Ohio, if an individual refuses a breathalyzer or other test, then his/her license is suspended also. I don't know your finances or insurance situation, but maybe you can fight it by getting a lawyer -- even a court appointed one. Also, property damage resulted in your case. Here, with a court order, blood can be drawn against your will to determine whether or not legally you were drunk. It sounds like you had an unfortunate wreck, and by mere means of smelling alcohol on you, is not enough to presume intoxication. You state lack of memory (which is common after a head injury), and it seems the police should have backed off until medical personnel determined your condition before questioning you. If that is the case, then your rights as a citizen were violated, and you may have a case. Keep us posted, and hope things turn out better in the future.