Thank you guys for your response. I understand now about the triangle marking. so check this out though. After reading more threads, and after everythign I tried today, i thought maybe i should go through some steps again: Heres what i did...after returning from my unsuccessful drive with the shift motor unplugged, i left it unplugged, took BOTH battery cables off(i just removed the negative prior) and let it set for a bout 20-30 minutes. Went back out, GENTLY tapped around on the worm drive and shift motor, plugged the shift motor plug back together(i made sure earlier it was the one with the infamous brown wire), hooked the battery cables back up, turn the ignition to ON, put the truck in neutral, foot on the brake and TADAA! I heard the shift motor noise and the 4 wheel low disengaging!!! Put it in reverse a few feet, back in drive (felt no torque clinch) and it drove like normal. when i got back i hit the snowy field by the house to see if the AWD would kick in and i couldnt do any real sliding around so i believe all is well now - I AM DEFINITELY NOT IN 4WD. NEXT QUESTION IS: is there a brown wire mod for my 99 ex sport that will not freak the computer out AND leave my system in tact when I need it? i have only had this truck for a few months, and from the looks of the skid plates inderneath(they look like new, no scratches etc) i dont believ the 4wd has been used much if at all. Could the shift motor just be stiff, and/or if i so with no evidence of fluid leaks, could my fluids need replenishing or changing? Truck has 200k on it, but in 4wd lo it seems to almost pull wheelies it feels so strong...thank you again for your help and for this awesome forum!