Whoops. Yep rear is 41 lb-ft.
About the torque wrench loaner - I have a digital torque meter to calibrate my wrenches. When I first got it, I realized one of my wrenches was *way* out of spec, and it had caused me to over torque (to the point of damage) some parts in the past. Just borrowed the O'Reilly 250 lb-ft torque wrench to do the front struts, and when I checked it was about 15% high. So, that's gonna make a big difference on a bolt that needs 100+ lb-ft.
I will never, ever trust a torque wrench without calibrating it.