I would bet you have a very simple problem, such as a vac leak that has caused all your Problems.
Not dissin guy but you have posted more percieved (potential) problems, than i have ever seen.
You have used a shotgun approch to solving said problems, you have thrown 2500 bux into trying to get things right, and to this point, nothing has worked.
You have been given some good info (which you do not listen too)
You state that you have a hopped up engine, your numbers do not support that claim.
They are piss poor, period.
You have either a worn out engine, or a simple problem.
You were told several mos ago that a dyno is a great diagnostic tool, that is not true.
Granted a dyno can be used to tune, if you have a tuner on site that can modify perameters in real time.
A dyno cannot tell you if you have a vac leak, bad compression, or just a burned out, worn out engine, the above are diagnosed with simple tools.
IMO you need to get back to step one and start over. looking at the simple stuff. or get rid of your EX.
Hope all gets worked out, but it seems it never will, good luck