Well I'm all done... the Napa guy was expensive at $50 each for pressing in the bearing... but I wasn't going to travel all over to save $25 or $30. The parking brake wasn't too bad except that I think I set them a little too wide... because when I slid the rotor on... I couldn't get it back off... that took me a while (I recommend starting narrow on the adjuster and then widening very slowly... sliding the rotor on and off each time to check it(my 2003 didn't have the rubber cover to adjust the parking brake... however, there is a knockout... It would have been a little easier if I knocked out the knockout ... but I didn't have a plug to replace it)
Now... the part that made it a challenge... After it was all back together... there was a metal-on-metal scraping noise... at first I thought it was the parking brake being a little to tight... but after dissembling and reassembing the wheel/brake/rotor a few times... I finally found a small "bump" in the round sheet metal plate that just behind the rotor (may be the dust cover)... of course the "bump" was at the very bottom so I couldn't see it initially. Both hubs had the "bump" in the exact same spot... it's clear the "bump" wasn't original... I'm assuming the shield got dented a little in the bearing press out/in process.
Anyway, got a nice fat screw driver and gave the bump a few whacks to put it back in its place so it didn't contact the rotor.
After that... smooth as silk.
Over all.. not a highly technical job... just very physical. You can get at all of the nuts and bolts without having to be a contorsionist
Also.. for the record, the hub nut on a 2003 AWD is 35mm. I've seen a few post talking about 35mm vs. 36mm.
Finally... about reusing the axle nut.... I'm believe the only reason for not reusing them is the locktite type material that is on an original unused nut. I decided to go with new nuts... and sure as heck, there's a bead of locktite on the threads of the new nut. Not sure if it's "special" locktite... but $30 for 2 small beads of locktite is a little too much to handle.
So in the end...New Timkin bearings, new rotors, new pads (both parking brake and regular brakes), new axle nuts, a few scrapes on my hands... It's all worth not having my wife complain about the noise anymore!!!
PS... one last note... My torque wrench only went up to 150ft-lb... Advance Auto's loaner only went to 150... but Autozone's loner went to 250... so I borrowed the Autozone wrench to torque down the axle nut.