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Discussion in 'Exploring everything under the sun!!' started by Doug, September 14, 2002.

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    1. Doug

      Doug I'm Awesome! Moderator Emeritus

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      I work at radioshack and this girl came in two days ago looking for a cell phone. She bought one and i didnt think about it that much afterwards. Today my boss basically said (Id quote him but i think id be booted off the board.) she liked you i could tell. Im a complete tool when it comes to women, I can explain stuff to them but once its on a personal level im pretty much clueless expecially with people ive just met. She's coming in tomorrow to pickup a car charger for her phone and i feel like i should say something but i have no clue what to say or do.
       
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      I wish I could tell ya somethin, but I'm the same stinkin way. At least I know I'm not the only one
       
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      First, ask her how she likes her phone, yada yada. Ask her if she's been using it to talk to all her friends, and how her boyfriend sounds on it. Then you get your answer if she's available ;) Shmooze her up a bit, then maybe ask her if she'd like to go out sometime (make sure you've formally introduced yourself by this time). The worst she can say is no, and it's not like you ever have to see her again if she does.
       
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      Dude.. if she wants you.. give her a piece! Go here to study up!
       
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      man, just do what alec said, but if you dont wanna ask her out, offer your number and be like, "call me anytime...if you have problems with your phone." lay it on nice and thick and obvious.
      --bryan
       
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      Yeah alec's advise sounds pretty good. Ill let you all know how i do tomorrow. :)
       
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      nah, never offer you number, you gotta say "Can I holla at it" J/K

      Just what Alec said, go like that.

      I just sorta did that the other day at the Dorms. I went to my friends room (coed dorm) and a Hottie was going into her room, checked the number when I walked by and went to my friends dorm room. When I was leaving I went over to her room and knocked, god damn was she hot! Now mind you, I have no idea who this girl is, except she is bangin! We introduced ourselves and I ended up chillen in her room for about 2hrs just talking ;) . Got her # and everything, lets see, about 5ft6, blond hair, fairly tan, beautiful Ta Ta's:D and face, and a nice body, basically everything about her was bangin! Gotta love college;) . I guess it just depends on how you are.

      Namitey - do you mean you were just shy, or you just didn't know she was into you?
       
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      Like i said im clueless. When it comes to women i have no idea whats going on. :)
       
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      It's kinda hard to explain, but basically just notice a womens actions, they(actions) can tell you everything you need to know:D . I forgot to mention this also, yesterday my mom and sister and I went to Fridays in the mall for dinner with a friend of mine from college and his mom whose down from Kentucky. We were eating and this girl came in with some friends and an adult (ended up being her mom), the whole way in until she sat at her table she was staring at me (actually thought she was grillen me or something at first, like whats this chicks problem), she sat down in the back somewhere b/c I couldn't see her. But she had our waiter also, and get this, she gave him her name and # on a knapkin and told him to go to my table and give it to me (the kid with the QuickSilver shirt on is what she told him), so he comes over to the table and hands me a folded up knapkin, I'm like whats this?? He say's you'll like it, open it up. I was really confuesed at that but opened it and theres the girls # and name, my mom and all them were like "aaahhhhh". I didn't go over to her table when I left, but called her later on. Now that was a little more obvious that she was interested, unlike if you were just talkin to a girl. She definitley was a hottie also, I'm really attracted to hot Surfer type of girls, they drive me crazy, I guess cause I'm more of a surfer. Put me on the water and I'm happy, thats the only good thing about living where I do, damn stuck up city, just walk out the back porch and pool and take the boat or waverunners out, thats about all there is to do here, or Surf if we ever get a storm here again, haven't had any waves for awhile. But anywayz, back on topic, honestly, just try talking to them or noticing their actions and then talk to them, it'll work, trust me or any other guy, I'm 20 if your wondering. That girl ended up being 18 and a senior at the high school I went to.
       
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      At least if your clueless, you have an excuse, your an Explorer Tool Head;) :D
       
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      i must admit, alec's advise is good to go. been awhile since ive been "tha playa" (im 28, and been married for 3 yrs.) but i still remember. sliding in the "boyfriend" thing is a d@mn good idea... if she says something like "he likes it" or whatever, then you know she either has a boyfriend or isn't interested. the WORST that could happen is she could give you the no signal. so what, who cares? to all of you shy guys, look at it this way. you talk to 2% of the girls you meet, and 50% say yes. or, you talk to 80% of the girls you meet, and 50% say yes... i would rather play the 80% than the 2%... just better odds IMHO.
       
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      When in doubt, whip it out.

      Just show it to her. If she runs, it wasn't meant to be.

      :D
       
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      From experience.. Cory is right! :D
       
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      So she ran? :D LOL
       
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      and ran fast!
       
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      It didnt work out. I was talking to some tool about a flashlight battery and she came in. i was like a deer in head lights i gave her the charger and that was it. go me.
       
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      so instead of [​IMG] then this [​IMG]

      you got [​IMG]
       
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      yeah pretty much. I told a friend of mine and he went and checked my schools student list and aparently she goes there so i guess we'll see what happens. :)
       
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      [​IMG] for [​IMG] maybe even [​IMG] but dont let her [​IMG] you.

      Or just give her the sign... [​IMG]

      Wow, you can really tell a story with these things.
       
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      *goes cross eyed trying to figure all that out*
       
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      Namitely, I feel for you. I've been there before. Most young ladies like to get attention. But kinda hard to predict what they want out of you. Oh well. Do you work in a radio shack in a mall? If you do, then you would definately get give yourself a plus for that. Of course shopping if what most of them like. Most of them will probably go to the cell phones...hmm I wonder why. I would like to work in a store where you get new faces all the time. But as for me, working in a business environment, you just see the same people everyday. Okay, maybe I need to look for a new job. Just be natural with the ladies, you'll reel in the one for that. Oh yeah, those college ladies are definately easier to get with. So just go out and have fun. You'll get them!...Chicks dig explorers :cool:
       
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      They're linking them from other forums out there. You can right click and check the propertires to see where they're coming from.
       
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      Best advice out there:

      Treat her just like any other friend of yours.

      You gotta get oveer the flippin butterflies and just talk to her, just like if she was your buddy, of course none of this "Yeah dude I'd smack that ass" crap you just talk to her nice and polite, like you do for your mom. Women eat it up when they realize they just found a "nice guy". They can see straight through any false front or act you put on, it's built into their eye's. So just be yourself, you gotta be quick on your feet though.....making a girl laugh is the best way to get close to her......

      I dont care how bad you are shaking, sweating, or about to pass out, you gotta look her straight in her eye's and just be yourself...the butterflies will go away, and chances are you are the only one that notices how nervous you are.........


      Once you get to know each other then you can get nasty..... :)
       

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