Welcome!
As for the interior items, the steering wheel looks very worn and almost like the primary driver has a ring or something that is scratching/abrasive on that spot shown in the picture. The hard plastic looks equally scratched/worn. With every manufacture they have different materials/designs that are used, so you will see some will wear faster than others.
As for the console area, from what I can see, that looks like a chemical has eaten away at the top layer, maybe a cleaner of sorts?
For the hood, there are some threads in regards to this, take a look and it may give you some direction for the dealership to repair.
So we have a 2017 with 40k and I don't have any of the issues that you have shown, I have other issues but I digress.
I worked at a detail shop while in college and we saw 100's of cars a day in the regular wash bays and you could have the same cars with similar miles/age and one would look terrible and the other would look new, kind of just the way things work out sometimes. One other note for interiors, I notice that some people have a different chemical secretion than the next person. Kinda like how some people will have reactions to gold and others do not. So I would see some cars where people touch regularly and it would look all chewed up and others not, again everyone is different.
I have very oily skin and I have to keep a cloth/cover on any area that my arms touch, as it will start to crack the leather or vinyl.
Anyhow all that to say that every car/person is different.