Thank You for your advice. I'm an older engineer and self-taught mechanic (30+ years) and still trying to keep my 3 daughters in running vehicles - doing things 'right' is usually the only way I'll do a job - until now... trying to find the 'right approach' - economically prudent for this vehicle.
Gasket was blown, replaced - now slips in 1st, 2nd and Rev, will run and shift 'properly' only above 25 mph with the OD-OFF. I've read/studied 10+ hrs of posts/specifications, but I still don't have a grasp or feel for how to connect my symptoms - diagnosing the failed/defective parts. Some complexity here, takes both hands-on and experience that I don't have. Noticed the operational differences in the literature for manual (1), good question...but I haven't tried because the shifter has that loose screw thing going-on and it won't go all the way over to 1. I considered repairing that for the data point...but it doesn't seem to change my predicament, certainly would aid diagnosis.
Pretty sure I have hard part damage based on symptoms - trying to decide if I should spend $300 on parts and ...try... to bring it back with dismantling and repairing just what's damaged up to a fixed cost - enough to get a year of use or spend this same amount on a used one. Without the proper tools and knowledge this is probably a no-brainer - go for the used, but the availability of buying used with low miles is severely limited. My daughter could drive it now if it had reverse...that's not safe..
Vehicle has 152k, fluid is red and clean now, never any sparkles - magnet looked just like your pic in your rebuild diary. Seems the combination of electro-mechanical, electro-hydraulic, and mechanical interplay make it impossible to diagnose unless it's all apart on the bench, and not even then really - but I'd bet my bottom dollar one of these professionals (experienced transmission builders) on here could immediately nail it, at least with a fairly high confidence level. You know how that goes...
Thanks again, wish I could help you more my friend...I appreciate your time and expertise. I'm in NC, let me know if I can help you in any way...