After some heavy searching I found some sites providing all the parts listed in this diary. These sites also had the best pricing, hope this helps.
A great link to Ford OEM parts and also the site sponsor. Most already know about this one. Here you can get the TSB update kit, gaskets, filter, solenoid bracket etc.
Fast Parts Network
Great price on the Sonnax Boost Valve(sort by Title, boost valve should be third) The TransGo Shift Kit is also available here.
Transmission Parts USA
Superior and Transgo shift kits(also the boost valve, but TransParts USA is cheaper)
Automatic Transmission Parts, Makco Distributing, Inc.
Additionally, here are some part numbers*:
Sonnax Boost Valve:37947-01K(
OEM RATIO)
Superior Shift Kit:K4R/5R55E
TransGo Shift Kit:SK4R44E/55
Ford VB Kit:3L5Z7M203JA
Ford Solenoid Braket Update:XL2Z7L491AA
*Vehicle specific parts not listed:
VB Separator Plate
VB Separator Plate Gasket
Filter
Pan Gasket
Vehicle Specific Part Application Chart(
Calling your local Ford dealer will help in deciphering which parts you need here)
Vehicle Application Engineering Description Qty. New Service Part Use on Transmission Application 7000 -Reference Only-
95/96 Models ONLY
95/97 Models Separator Plate to Case Gasket 1 2L5Z-7C155-AA ALL
95/97 Models Separator Plate to Main Control Gasket 1 2L5Z-7D100-BA ALL
95/96 Models - ALL Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 F5TZ-7A008-CA 95GT-AA/BA/CA/DA/EA/FA/ GA;96GT-BA/CADB/EB/FA/ GA/HA/KA/MA/NA
97 Models ONLY
97 2.3L Ranger Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 F77Z-7A008-AB 97GT-GC
97 3.0L OHV Ranger/Aerostar Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 F77Z-7A008-AB 97GT-EC/FC/MC/NC/RE/SE
97 4.0L OHV Ranger/Aerostar Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 F77Z-7A008-CB 97GT-KE/LE
97 4.0L OHV Explorer/Mountaineer Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 F77Z-7A008-DB 97GT-KF/LF
97 4.0L SOHC Explorer/Mountaineer Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 F77Z-7A008-EB 97GT-AE/BE
1998-2001 Models ONLY
98/01 2.5L Ranger Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 1L5Z-7Z490-DA 98GT-GA; XL5P-CA
98/00 3.0L Ranger Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 1L5Z-7Z490-EA 98GT-EB/FB; XL5P-AA/BA
98/00 4.0L - EI Ranger Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 1L5Z-7Z490-FA 98GT-KB/LB; XL5P-DA/EA/FA
98/00 4.0L - EI Explorer Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 1L5Z-7Z490-GA 98GT-CB/DB; XL2P- EA/FA
98/00 4.0L - SOHC Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 1L5Z-7Z490-HA 98GT-AA/BA; XL2P- CA/DA
2001-2002 Models ONLY
2001/2002 2.3L Ranger Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 1L5Z-7Z490-AA 1L5P-CA
2001/2002 3.0L Ranger Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 1L5Z-7Z490-BA 1L5P-AA/BA
2001/2002 4.0L-SOHC - ALL Plate - Valve Body Separator 1 1L5Z-7Z490-CA 1L5P-DA/EA
I KNOW MOST OF THIS HAS BEEN PREVIOUSLY POSTED. MY INTENTION IS FOR ALL THIS INFORMATION TO BE ON ONE POST.
Thanks again Glacier...