It is possible that the shop was quick to just replace the pan gasket without really checking out the transmission for any other leaks and call it a day. If that is the case then I agree with you without arguement. However, it is also possible that by fixing one leak the transmission developed another. Transmission pumps maintain high line pressures in order for the valve body(brain) to work properly and engage each gear effectively. Since the transmission is under high pressure, and since I am sure your Ex has plenty of miles on it, the pan gasket may have been leaking fluid while also relieving pressure inside of the tranny. I have seen plenty of instances where replacing one gasket on an engine or transmission ends up causing other leaks that may not have been there before. As an example, lets say that one of my techs finds that the front pump seal is leaking on a 4r70 Town Car tranny. No other gaskets on the tranny are leaking at the time so we replace the front pump seal and tranny pan gasket and filter while we are in there, might as well right? Two weeks later the same car comes back in now leaking from the extension housing. In a perfect world the customer would have the disposable income to replace all of the seals that can possibly leak on a older tranny with 100K+ miles on it. Unfortunately, you replace the seal that is leaking at the time the car is in and hope the others hold up, because if you tell the customer all of the seals should be replaced then you are "just trying to rape them for all they have" even though as someone who realizes that cars are built by people on earth and not angels in heaven another seal is probably going to let go in the near future. Check the different posts on here about tranny modulators. Many people replace defective modulators due to tranny fluid leaking into the intake only to have the tranny detonate on them soon after. Those who replaced the modulators themselves know they are the ones who replaced it and blame nothing but the tranny for grenading. Have the same work done at a shop and all of the sudden the tech must have "done something, or something wrong" to make the tranny explode. My reccomendation is to find a lift, remove the tranny, rebuild it with all new seals, clutches, frictions, valve body componets, various hard parts, etc, then re-install it and hope that you didn't forget anything. Should fix everything. Of course a band could break, front pump fail, trash left in the lines,....