I'm not sure if anyone is still reading this but I want to keep it up to day to help people in the future. I ordered the compressor "kit", and condenser from Rock Auto. They arrived on Thursday so in the afternoon I cracked open the system. Followed the instructions in the good old haynes manual for removing the condenser and replaced that. Finally got the orifice tube out and found metal shavings on it so I confirmed that was at least part of my problem. Pulled the accumulator and got the new one ready to go in. I had a bought a can of a/c system flush from advance auto and proceeded to flush my evaporator. Well, that little can was clearly not enough. So I called around on Friday morning and found one to rent and bought a quart of a/c system flush. Got it home, hooked up the compressor I barrowed from my dad and flushed the evaporator until I had clear liquid coming out. It was very flourecent green. I then continued to blow clean air through the line every time the compressor got back up to full pressure so that I could get the most solvent out of the evaporator as possible.
Getting the a/c compressor was a paint. I couldn't get the stud out. Finally I figured out an acceptable was to get them out and when I tried draining the oil from the compressor it was almost completely empty. Now that the compressor was off the car I flushed the other a/c lines and proceeded with the new compressor. The new compressor had 5.4 ounces of oil in it already so I dumped it out and made sure I had 9 ounces because that is what is listed on the radiator shroud. Reinstalled the compressor, new serpentine belt while I was at it, hooked the lines back up to the condenser, put the new orifice tube in and connected everything up, checking the o-rings and oiling them up in the process. I then got my gauge set and vacuum pump ready to pull a vacuum as I am paranoid about letting humid air into the accumulator. Last thing I did was connect the accumulator and then immediately pulled a vacuum. System held a vacuum and the needle did not budge for at least a half hour while I cleaned up. I had to stop the process at that point last night so i'm going to vacuum the system for an hour this morning before I start the recharge process.