Whoa, Whoa, Whoa. That is way too tight for all but the main hub spindle bolt. Ant torque spec is based on the fastener size, and its strength.
I can break the ball joint bolts, and tie rod bolts, so "...as tight as you can fricken get them..." is way too tight.
The upper ball joint bolt is about a 3/8" size, and the spec is probably around 50 lbs.ft.
The lower ball joint is a very large bolt, and the spec will be something like a wheel stud, say 80-90 lbs.ft.
The tie rod end is about 1/2" in size, and a torque of about 75 lbs.ft. would be good for it.
Those hub to spindle bolts are also about 1/2", and about 70 lbs.ft. would be enough for them.
I sometimes look up torque specs. I always torque internal engine components to exact specs. Generally I can tighten bolts without a torque wrench, by experience with bolt sizes, and their strengths. Very good questions, good luck.