Checking O'Reilly's website I assume this is your alternator:
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Note that it is for vehicles up to 7/24/00 and has a 63mm pulley. Part number 392520 is for vehicles from 7/24/00. In comparing the rebuilt ones I noticed that the one up to 7/24/00 has a 57mm pulley and the one from 7/24/00 has a 53mm pulley. Do you know the build date of your vehicle and the stock pulley size? A smaller pulley will provide a greater voltage at lower speeds that a larger pulley. I would want the correct pulley size. However, I doubt the pulley size is contributing to your voltage regulator failures.
All of the above are shown with the I-D-A terminal configuration which seems appropriate to me.
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My stock alternator has 3 contacts even though the middle one is not externally connected.
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It appears that the V8 and the SOHC V6 alternators are interchangeable. The OHV V6 alternator is different.
I suspect there is something I'm overlooking that's causing your failures. Did you charge your battery with an external charger before starting the engine? If so, did you measure the voltage across the battery terminals to confirm it was actually charged?