I think one of the reasons you have not found much on this topic is that not many people have seriously hopped up a 4.0 OHV motor. There are a couple companies that deal in performance 4.0, they are Vanir Technoligies and 4.0 Litre Performance, a division of Central Coast Mustang. Do a search on both of those and see what you find.
As far as I know, there are no stroker kits out for the 4.0. That is a fairly involved process on any motor, I think your money would be better spent elsewhere.
As far as increasing the bore, sure, you could go 0.030" over, but you're really not going to gain much there.
Getting different heads? I could be wrong, but I don't believe there are any aftermarket performance heads for the 4.0 OHV. The stock heads arn't the best in the world either, they're rather weak in design in certain areas, and that lead to cracks in high mileage motors.
Porting and polishing? Sure, you can do it, but for the money, I don't believe you're going to see a significant horsepower gain to justify it.
There are a few performance camshafts out there, you could go that route. You can also go with roller rockers. But these mods will still not net you the HP I believe you're looking for.
That leads us to supercharging. If you want to substantially increase your available HP and torque, you might want to look into a blower. There is a ongoing thread from Alec about his blower install. He would be a good person to talk to.
Of course you could also swap in a V8, but that is very involved and expensive.
My advice to you would be to start learning more about this subject. Research as much as you can. You admittingly have much to learn about this, and with greater knowledge you can better make an educated decision that will benefit YOU the most. Whichever way you go, significant HP increases cost a good chunk of money. Do your homework.