I understand completely. Looking back I wish I'd taken some pic's of what I did but......
To answer your questions: yes my repair did work and has for several weeks now and the tip of that arm is a solid piece. Before I try and relate exactly what I did to repair this I want to reiterate , the best solution might still be having a 3D printing service make one for you. I have no idea what this would cost but if you were to pursue this I may be willing to split cost with you. I think our costs could be reduced or even eliminated (over time) by having several of these parts made up and just offering them up for sale online. Who knows?
Alright, here is what I did:
The shape of that tip does 2 things, it holds the arm in place and prevents it from rotating in the flapper. After looking at this several times I decided any type of glue would not last very long, and I damn sure only wanted to do this once haha. So, I chose to replace the tip with an aluminum dowel. The base of the plastic where it breaks off is 5/16 " diameter. I used a handle from a small utility knife I to make a replacement tip. Aluminum is easy to shape and the handle was 5/16". (see Picture) . You will need to drill a hole down the center of the arm to press the aluminum piece into it. This was tricky cuz if the drill walks you end up with a broken part and no way to repair it. I drilled a small pilot hole down the center and followed with a larger bit until I reached 5/16". A sharp bit is crucial as well as drilling slowly. If the bit grabs the part may crack and then your screwed. Honestly I think I was just lucky during this step as I did this with a handheld drill and it grabbed a few times during drilling. I held the part in my hand to do this which allowed me to release the part quickly when it began to grab. I hope that makes sense. Once you get the arm drilled out the aluminum rod needs to be cut to length. You can figure that length by how deep the tip of the rod needs to go into the flapper. It was approximately 1/2". The tip of the rod then needs to be shaped so it fits into the flapper. I used a hand file for this. The plastic tip is shaped like a "T" and filing that rod into that shape was problematic. I decided to just file it enough to just get the rod to seat all the way down into the flapper. If you get to this point you will see what I mean. After you have a rod that is cut to length and shaped properly you will need to install it permanently in the plastic arm. Glue might work for this but I chose to pin it using a small piece of wire, I used a coat hanger. I pinned it in 2 spots, near the flapper and also on the other end. You need to be sure that pin doesn't stick out as that will impede rotation. The last part is assembly of the vacuum pot/motor and new arm into the upper air box. With the air box sitting on the center console and vacuum line ( yellow tubing) hooked up I turned on the key to the ignition position, to give power to the heater and then I put the selector knob for the heater in the defrost position. This will push the control arm on the vacuum pot out into a position so that the flapper is rotated into the open position for defrost. Somehow you need to mark that spot so you know where to pin the flapper. I did not pay attention to this the first time and the flapper was not rotating properly. It's important that you get this spot right cuz if it's off you end up putting to much pressure on your repaired part and it may fail. And after all this work that would lead to a LOT of cursing . This was all done with a part that was over 15 years old. I inspected the part under a magnifying glass for any cracks especially in the area that attaches to the vacuum pot/motor as that seemed to be a common spot for failure.
Again, looking back on this I wish I'd had this 3D printed. In order to get this "printed" I would need a complete part for the printing service to program. I don't have that option now as I've modified mine. I may just go down to the local junkyard today and have a look around . That is of course your other option, cuz if you have the time you may be able to find one that isn't broken. Clearly this was a lot of work and the long term reliability is probably questionable. But I'm retired and apparently have to much time on my hands. lol
The picture shows the utility knife handle I sacrificed for this. The smooth section on the right hand side is what I used.
I do intend to got to the junkyard today and see if I can find anything
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