I tried to change my oil today (for the first time), but was stopped at "Remove oil drain plug." LOL. I am a pretty strong person, but try as I might I could NOT get that drain plug off, and either the place I had it changed at last time screwed it in so tightly it got a nice cold weld (hehe) or Im trying the wrong one, I have an '03 4.6L V8. I thought it was the black black one more toward the front of the vehilce, with the drain on the side of the pan pointing towards the rear of the car, or is it the shiny metal pan with the drain on the bottom thats located further back near the middle of the vehicle? And it is counterclockwise to unscrew right? I dont know what to do, cause the things starting to strip, and I want to change my own damn oil.