It sounds to me like you have the same problem, and it's been a while since my original post, so I'll share my experience to date as well. I replaced the gear fluid in the rear diff as one of the mechanics recommended in a post, included the additive (friction modifier) he suggested, and that didn't help matters much. In fact, the problem seems to be getting progressively worse. I don't know if that's the result of the new fluid having a different viscosity, or if the clutch components are starting to wear more. Either way, I'm at the point now where I'm thinking I'll have to replace the clutch pack soon.
If you find a solution that works, please reply to the post and let me know. I'll do the same.
Good luck.