Gerald, i totally agree with you. one thing is, however, that you do underestimate the Jeep a bit.
the common thought of Broken Jeep syndrome is all about driver fault. they think "oh, im in a Jeep, and its 4x4, so i can go 25 through a technical section, and ford a foot and a half deep stream, and get full articulation with the sway bars still connected".
explorer's are designed for what they are designed for. any 4x4 can do what most of the modded vehicles (only get stuck more often) as long as the driver knows what they are doing.
the Scooby Brat (everyone loves it, i know) can hold its self with the big boys as long as there is a capable driver in there.
all the mod's we do to our trucks are simply to make the Wheelin more fun. Less concern about contact patch and tire pressure, and tread siping, and camber, and all that **** means more that we can focus on the trail and have fun.
look at Rick, he probabally has the most trick ex on the board, and he probabally has some serious fun. then look at someone like me, in a stocker Ford Ranger 2wd. its harder for me to off-road because i need to worry about getting stuck, and keeping the truck dent and scratch free.
so what it all boils down to is that every vehicle is just as capable as the next, its just the driver and their confidence behind the wheel that gets the job done. because i can gaurentee that there is at least one stocker in everyone's group that at least is out there having fun.
just my .002, but hey, its all worth it.