AWD is generally superior to 4WD because of the way it operates. I don't know about on the X, but on the Subarus and Quattro Audis, all 4 of your wheels are supplying power to move the car. A computer keeps torque distributed 25/25/25/25% to each of your wheels. If say your left front slips, it can transfer the power from that slipping wheel, to the right front wheel to "push" you back in the right direction. It's a GREAT system that should be standard in all cars today.
The reason it's not standard though is because it IS heavy because you need a transfer case, and the neccesary computer components to power all 4 wheels (I think the Eclipse for instance has 300 pounds added because of the AWD) , and also, when it breaks...

Have fun repairing it. I guess another reason is because you do lose a lot of power in all of the transferring of energy involved, so AWD cars usually have lower top-end speed, but dang do they get off the line quickly
4WD is not as good because all it does is supply 50% power to the front, and 50% to the rear. This is great, if power wasn't lost in transmitting the power through the driveshaft to the rear wheels. In effect, your front wheels are getting more power, and this can lead to some very dangerous situations on dry road at high speeds. Unequal power distribution can be disastrous. It also will wear your tires at uneven intervals. NEVER be in 4WD while you are travelling on the highway.
AWD is always on, and is always ready. It's not perfect, because if all 4 wheels are slipping like when you are driving on ice....well, downshift, brake, hope ABS holds, and pray

I could explain it more, but I think you'll really like the AWD system you got on there. Definitely nice up north especially.
Oh, and btw, all the ABS (Anti-lock brakes) does is pump the brakes for you very quickly. You ever had to stop very quickly and your tires lock up and your car skids a bit? That's your tires locking up. Now, did you ever feel the brake pedal pulsing? That's your ABS pumping the brake pedal for you. Do NOT pump the brakes like they taught you in driver's ed. That's only if you don't have ABS, like in older cars. Pumping the brakes releases and applies the brakes quickly to stop them from locking up. It's a great safety feature.