i have a ? about sway bar and sound

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i have a 91 eb and i want to make by sway bar a quick disconnect w/ the hitch pins, what link whole should i put these in?

one more ?....

i have borla hedders and a gibson cat back
and im not satified w/ the sound im looking for a loud sound and kinda like a hesitating
sound ( like a dragster) what could i do to make this happen thanks alot!