I'm just lucky I had big wrenches, I think up to 50 mm or so (probably standard, but i did have a 36mm wrench). With a real wrench, taking the fan off is a 30 second job, with the "special tool", its next to impossible, it just flat out doesn't work. I'd never buy it or recommend it again, I'm guessing you could use a wrench or big channel locks for the fan side and do just as well.
Enough on that, the machine shop had to buy a new tool, he said I should have everything early next week, and by the time I have the short block done, he should have the heads done. I am going full rebuild. The crank was turned, the block bored and honed, new cam, all new bearings, new timing set, new lifters, but I'll probably reuse the pushrods (all are in perfect condition), as well as the rocker arm assembly, which also seems fine, but can be replaced easily at any time if it begins to clatter. The heads are milled flat, cleaned, new valves, seats, guides, seals, and springs. All in all, it will probably come out to be around $2000. More than you can buy a crate engine for, but at a much higher quality, as well as the priceless education. I don't build engines, never have. I have done enough top ends in 2 strokes, torn apart plenty of lawn mower engines, outboards, etc., but this is my first automotive engine I've had below the heads.
As for rock auto, I'm not sure what to do. I must have spent over $3000 there this year alone so far, and have shopped there for years. I sent the email Monday; no reply yet. That money alone would fund the rest of this engine rebuild. I have a list backing up of things I need that I may very well just give to the local auto parts store. Everything I've saved this year by shopping rock auto is lost due to this incident anyway.
I've decided its too late this year to do any major modifications to the explorer. Next spring I'll replace the rockers, as well as any other rust that pops up this winter, bedliner undercoating, as well as about 1/3rd up the bottom side, SOA rear, matching lift in the front, regear to 4.56's, and running BFG 33x10.5 tires. At some point I'll also be fabing some bumpers and a swing out tire carrier for a 33" spare and a jerry can.