OBD port should be under dash below steering wheel. There shouldn't be anything plugged into it normally. You would need a scan tool to check for DTCs - diagnostic trouble codes. Scan tool would plug into OBD port, so if anyone connected one, they should have noticed if something else was already plugged in.
I didn't think mykey was set up to beep for aggressive driving, but maybe something was corrupted.
Can you identify where the sound is coming from (vehicle speaker, instrument cluster, elsewhere)?
Since yours only beeps under heavy acceleration over a range of speeds and doesn't when you drive more normal, it sure seems more like some kind of driving/fleet monitor that has been set to beep under specific parameters. I've seen plug in and hardwired versions, so you may need to have a look under the dash or wherever the sound seems to be coming from.
The other possibility is that you have some sort of electrical issue which would need to be investigated/traced by a competent mechanic. Did vehicle history/carfax show anythign unusual (prior company/fleet owner, accident/flood history, service issues)?
If this was a recent purchase, I think I'd be pursuing this with the management of the dealership you bought it from and asking them for assistance. If they are at all ethical and you explain what the salesperson told you and what you have done to rectify the problem, hopefully they will offer some kind of assistance.