The point of a high end oil is the lifespan, and every oil is basically claiming that they are special. So there is a level of BS from many of them.
They all meet OEM specs, stop mentioning that ever, you cannot find an oil which didn't meet specs when it was made.
The Amsoil OEM level oil they have(they have at least three levels), is around the same cost as Valvoline, Castrol etc. It is not available in any jugs, quarts only, or a 30gallon barrel. So buying it is inconvenient versus Walmart choices, or Amazon.
If you have an engine worthy of top level oil, that can be used for a year, or up to 25k miles. That could save a lot of money depending on your yearly mileage. I would prefer to change the oil once each Spring, with the special oil filter capable of lasting a year also. That would make a yearly oil and filter cost about $75 or so, taxes and shipping varying. That's a whole lot less than what I do spend now, about six times a year for 25kish miles, plus adding oil every couple of weeks.
The key is quality of engine, using oil or not, leaking etc. These are meaningless words if your engine is worn out, from poor oil quality or long interval changes etc. I am trying to get people to understand that all oils are not the same(specs and claims don't matter), going too long on any oil is not the best, and air filters are very important too. Ignore OEM recommendations to some extent, use better quality parts than they suggest, and change the oil more often, not at or longer than they suggest.