Turning over correctly. How would I check that it is getting air for sure? And I know the plugs will have fuel on them, there is fuel pressure at the rail. I thought maybe the converter may have been clogged since there hasn't been any exhaust work done in a very long time, but I disconnected the exhaust and still no good. It sounds like it really wants to start but I can't figure out what's stopping it. Ignition should be fine, I did the recent maintenance after it died out on me, thinking that could be the problem, as that hadn't been done in a long time as well.
check plugs are wet, pressure or not no fuel will go through them if they do not get the signal.
did it ever run properly after you replaced the ignition components?
air is not always as easy. if you have a throttle cable then giving it gas while turning over should ensure it gets air. If it is throttle by wire I am unsure if the throttle will open before the engine starts. It may not allow that.
if it will run with the throttle opened but dies if let to idle, that could indicate the idle air control valve is not functioning and is stuck closed.
it is also possible your mass air flow sensor is dirty or not functioning properly, however I believe such a condition should throw a code for either situation. Both of my explorers, totally different engines, will run without the mass air flow even plugged in, just an FYI.
could you further detail the deterioration prior to the ignition work? you say it died on you. Was that a significant change in performance over a short time, or had it been getting worse and worse for a while and eventually would not run at all? Was idle poor yet it ran fine otherwise? Or was performance poor at any throttle position?
Things I would start with......
Double check spark plug wiring is correct. Make sure the ignition pack is plugged in.
Check and clean mass air flow sensor.
Pull the plugs, and see what they look like after a 5 second turnover. Wet?
What have your oil changes been like recently? Any signs of water? Any loss/consumption of oil?
What does your coolant look like? Any oil? Level? Do you have to add frequently?
Compression test if you can.