I jacked up the explorer and tried moving the wheel like you said, and at the 6 and 12 oclock one, it was solid no movement at all, at the 9 and 3 o clock one, it moved a little side to side, but the left wheel was moving with it, it it was the steering i guess, nothing loose. I shook the sway bar when it wa sjacked up and when it was down, and there was no movement. i looked at all visible bushings, the lower and upper shock bushing, looks fine, but when it was on the ground, not jacked up, i tried shaking the shocks in the front both side, and there was no movement in the left one, but in the right one there was unnatural movement, and my intuition tells me its that, i want new shocks for a smoother ride anyways cause it rides rough as it is... but i also failed to mention in my original post that it also makes noise when i turn the wheel all the way to one side.... i dont know if that helps but thanks for the insight, and if you can make any more possible conclusions from this post, they would be greatly appeciated!