UPDATE
I hate when people ask a lot of questions and then go away without ever posting if it fixed the issue,
So here is how mine turned out - due to a lot of help here and a lot of reading I now have cold air
I'm not 100% sure that it is a permanent fix but it works good for now.
Here is what I found (turns out that I had two issues).
First the accumulator was covered with oil and obviously the source of the leak so I replaced that. The new one came with new o-rings and shrader valve so I used them.
I had also bought new schrader valves and additional o-ring to replace the high pressure side valve and any leaks that I found. That's were I ran into a few problem. Apparently the HP side scharder is larger than normal so the new valve was to small (same size as LP side) so I had to just tighen the old one. The 0-rings didn't really match up will with the installed rings (typically the new rings were thinner) so since the old ones were in good shape I oiled them and reused them.
I also went in and replace the air orifice tube and it was a good thing that I did. It was completely plugged with what looked like a combination of stop leak and and what I believe was descant.
That was why the pressure was dropping so fast every time the compressor kicked in which then immediately trip it off then on low pressure.
So I blew out the condenser, the evaporator and the hoses with the compressor disconnected. I got a lot of crap to blow out.
I then went ahead and replace the orifice.
I put 4 ounces of PAG 46 into the accumulator (full system spec was 7, I saw recommendations of 2-3 for the accumulator but figured that it had leaked quiet a bit, but that I had also added some when charging freon so 4 seemed about right).
I drew a vacuum with the $100 Harbor Freight electric vacuum pump, I tried the air powered one but couldn't get above 24 inches of vacuum so I took it back and got the other pump. I was able to get 30 inches of vacuum and after I sucked it down a few times to get all of the water vapor out. It held like a champ.
Charge din 30 onces of R-134A and everything is running smoothly and cold.
Final pressure values at around 80 -85 F were
42# on LP and
200 on HP. Which fall right into the curves in the explore manual.
My one fear is that I didn't flush out the system well enough and that the screen on the orifice tube is going to plug again but If I have to go in again at least now I have all the tools.
PS those spring fittings suck.
Thanks Again for all the help
Steve