sorry have no pic's
but there are a wiring diagram for a relay switch in this thread, i pretty much used that one, i got 12v and ground from the 12v connection by the ashtray, and i connected the brown wire(thick one) from GEM to the "30" connection on the relay, and let the "87a" go to the transcase, as suggested in the thread so if the fuse blows, the relay will connect the transcase to 4wd mode by default.
And then add ground to the relay "58" and 12+ to a switch (use a switch with a light in it so you can se when it's engaged, and then you need ground to the switch also) and then from the switch to the relay, its like connecting any relay really no sweat.
If you want to se the GEM working connect a bulb over the brown wire and ground, then it will glow when its just in stand by and light upp when you floor it, and the front cick's in!
You can get the brown wire without losen the front seat you just cut open the floormat under the seat where the seat cables goes throu, but its more difficult to get the cables to the consol where i put my relay and switch.
And i found out that i shuld have used 12+ from the ignition instead and not from the battery, now i have to remember to cut the switch when i leave the car, otherwise the relay steals power, not much but never the less...