I have the exact same problem with my 02 xlt. I had to replace the battery, and now it won't go into 4x4 period. No lights, noise, or anything when the buttons are pressed. I have read that there have been some problems with the 4x4 control modules for the 2002 modules. I have also read that when the modules go bad the system may not throw a code. I would like to know if there is a way to verify if the module is bad before spending money on a new one.