well just letting people know, my vibration is almost gone as of now. i was laying under the explorer in the garage today, just thinking.. and i noticed that my exhaust looked different. then i noticed the muffler had come completely off of the hanger, and the rubber thing fell out.. so i looked around in my junk drawer and found one, shoved it in there and put the muffler back in its place and took it for a drive on the freeway. oddly enough, its barely noticeable now.. maybe its just me, but before it was really annoying.. but im wondering if it were because the muffler was hitting the frame, causing it to bump it repeatedly, but felt to me as just a massive vibration.. im going to go ahead and just do the steering gear and alignment. ill bet thats the rest of it.. i hope. been chasing this for a long time as well