My honest opinion is they all look awesome! Red, white, black, silver - they could make one in hot pink and it would probably still look sweet! Or maybe not so much...... Anyway, I went with black only because I like the black on black look. Probably would have got the tri coat white if the dealership hadn't sold it. Happy I went with black nonetheless.
13WhiteSport, I went with the inexpensive 5K HID's from DDM Tuning only because so many here recommended them. They were very cheap but found out after the fact that they ship from China. Ordered them 2 weeks ago and yet to receive them. Probably see them mid July!!
I also did a complete LED interior conversion (map, 2nd row, 3rd row cargo, glove box), LED markers, LED switchback paking/turn lights, LED license plate lights, and LED puddle lamps. Must say she looks very sweet and I'm very surprised that Ford did not do this from the factory considering how inexpensive LED's are these days. a complete LED cnversion is HIGHLY recommended and VERY inexpensive.
Also, installed a color matched sharkfin antenna from Visual Garage which is also an inexpensive improvement.