Jason 25,
You have it a little backwards.
True, you need to have your front axle disconnect engauged. But you can accomplish this buy just simply selecting 4WD Auto. This will keep your front axle and driveshaft spinning.
The part you have backwards is that is the torque-on-demand clutch in the transfer case is what needs to be engauged to have 4WD High as well. That is what you want to send 12 volts to while your in 4WD Auto.
If you need any help with the wiring, take a look at a Ford electrical service manual for the Explorer. That will tell you everything you need to know.
Darren
Littleton, CO
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98 Explorer Limited V8
-Front 4 inch Superlift(Ranger)+1 inch Torsion Twist
-Rear 5.5 inch Superlift SOA
-2 inch PA body lift
-33x12.50 Goodyear Wrangler MT-Rs