I am guessing rear diff, but here goes
From 03 workshop manual, rear
Backlash 0.010-0.012in
Case run-out 0.003in
Pinion preload 8-14 IN-LB used brgs
Pinion preload 16-29 IN-LB new brgs
Carrier must be removed for pinion preload
Maximum carrier spread 0.030in
Fluid spec 75-140*
Notes:
-make sure you add shims for carrier preload as well!
-i have seen varying opinions on fluid level. Factory manual from 03 states 6-14mm BELOW bottom of fill hole. However, the 04 shop manual states IVD equipped (Advance Trac), fill spec is up to fill hole, then add a pint through the speed sensor hole cover.
-i hope you got the redesigned seals for the axle shafts. Make sure you remove the excluder seals from the axleshafts if you did or you will ruin the new $$ seals! They run about 30-40/each. From what I can see, the seal has been superseded from 5L2Z-4B416-BA to 7L1Z-4A109-D.
-A shaft repair sleeve for the companion flange is a good idea as more than likely you have a groove from the seal. Last one I got was about $12 National brand.
-Loctite instant gasket or SI 5900 works great to reseal diff and you don't have to wait to fill with oil like most other RTV sealants
I am curious whose bearing kit and ring and pinion you are using... Timken carrier bearings or Koyo?