I have a '96 Mustang with the 4.6L. Although it lacks the low end torque of the 5.0L (fixable with different cams for truck applications), it's a very sweet engine. It now has 40K and the car has never been in the shop save for one time a year ago when I did a dumb s**t and washed the engine a little too intensely, filling the #1 plug hole (they are vertical) with water and got a check engine light. I didn't know what the problem was but was sure it was my fault, so took it in. I specifically asked the wrench about the durability of the 4.6. Like the earlier post, the wrench indicated the engine had been installed in Ford products since '91 in '92 models and he said he had NEVER had one apart. Said he pulled one early engine and it was sent back to Ford, but he's never had one apart. That, to me, says a lot.
BTW, the 4.6L in the pickup is different than the one in the car. Probably the same bore centers, but the block is stronger and has longer skirts.
Yes, it's wider, but the Explorer is due for a major redesign for next year.
Jim