As someone who purchased a 2011 and then used Lemon Laws to get it replaced with a 2013 I have to say from first hand experience most, if not all of the issues that the 2011 had have been fixed.
There are two things you need to be aware of.
My Ford Touch has significant reliability issues if you are a heavy user. If your a guy who turns AM radio on and touches the HVAC once a week then it will provide you appropriate reliability.
If your a guy who is constantly adjusting HVAC controls, switching between AM/FM, Sirius, BlueTooth Audio, and then a USB connected iPod/iPhone then reliability is very poor. If you own an iPhone you do not get 100% integration with MFT. The complaints of the MFT system rebooting and being unstable are accurate and Im speaking from being the owner of a 2013 built August 18 2012.
Regarding your DVD request, the OEM solution providing Invision LT Series headrest DVD players is no longer. According to Ford CS there is new solution coming but not here yet. FYI, the Ford OEM headrest DVD system is NOT integrated with MFT at all.
I agree with the others here, buy iPads or iPad Mini's, way better option.
Other then MFT I love the vehicle, just wish MFT worked as advertised.
Thanks for all the replies guys. This reply is interesting as I fall into the "tech" category and yes, I would use the HVAC system as I assumed most do. Indiana is cold one day, hot the next. I'm mostly a connected phone listener but would use the radio from time to time. I would like to reliably stream audio from either an iPhone or a Windows Phone. I would rather stream but I don't mind connecting to USB either.
I feel I can handle some bugs as long as it's 90% operational. I would also want the NAV portion to be very reliable. I've used a lot of NAV systems over the last month and although they have improved there is still a long way to go on most of them, although I admit, they can't all be perfect for everyone. I try to be realistic.
It sounds like an EX owner really needs to know how to reboot and reset this system as that's what i am seeing the most out here.
I've completely written off Ford as a provider of a DVD entertainment system. It's a shame that they can't figure this out but it does allow me to "tinker" with it more. We do own iPads and I have a system today that allows me to stream movies from a small box to all the passengers in the car. It's nice to have a DVD system built in though. IR headphones = peace and quiet for adults, etc. (I own a few tech forums so i'm pretty darned geeky) Having said that, I do realize that software can overcome a lot of hardware issues and the latest update seems to fix a lot of folks. Hopefully, the reliability improves.
I've thought about getting two mini's and putting in a new "wifi movie system" and leaving them in the car. I like the idea but will need to think a little more on it.
I didn't count up the replies but there were a lot that mentioned a problem or two "but once fixed" the EX is great, so I don't really know how to take those comments!
I'm still giving it some thought. I have a Red Sport picked out and just want my first Ford experience to be a good one. If it's lousy not only am I going to regret the purchase but the accounting department, ie Wife, will never let me hear the end of it!
I know it's a roll of the dice on any car but you guys have helped. Thanks again. This is a pretty good thread too!