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Msupertek, again no doubts in my mind that you know what you're doing.
My problems with my local ford, and closest one could be isolated incidents, but either way, and bad impression is a bad impression. I've personally never had work done at a dealership, except the place I bought it from which was not Ford.
I got a bad taste in my mouth and I hate having to pay for what I feel is a fairly easy job. I realize that some places try to throw in a bunch of extra stuff you may or may not need. I usually don't care, but the more and more I'm learning and doing my self the less it's worth the $60 an hour. And then when I try to do something myself I get "THE PARTS GUY" or the cracky service desk lady that is haveing a bad day and doesn't want a young kid with a SUV bugg'n her (I'm not that young, just have a baby face.)
I work in computers and I see many places charging WAY too much for easy repairs and then taking the lazy way out. I warrenty all my stuff to work when the customer gets it back. I know people probably grumble behind my back, but I'm not that big yet and I'm still in the 100% kiss arse phse
I know as a computer tech (similar to a mech) that you don't like people to tell you what to do, or how to do it, or that they know more than you because you are, as you said certified. I appriciate people that can admit when they are wrong or don't know. In this case despite what the book said. I can't believe that it would cost $300 + to unbolt the diffy cover, drain it, pull the axles out and put the pads on. This also only included the pads, not the hardware. Now, I've never done it myself except in school, but for $26 in parts + fluid that A LOT of labor.
I recently got a number to "a friend of a friend" that works for Ford 30miles away. I think I'll call them and give them a chance. Maybe I'll tell 'em you sent me 'cause you sure are argueing in defences on mechanics and Ford. But Amen brother, I needed it! Just needed to vent!