so after i posted this there was a whining noise coming from under the car near where my feet are. i noticed it wud make the noise more when i was on an incline so i thot it had to be in the front of the car ie axl/front drive shaft/transfer case (where the car is "pulling"). almost sounded similar to when a chain on a ten-speed bike is loose. so i thot it was maybe the transfer case bc there is a chain in there. the noise occured out on the highway. by the time i took it to my friend, who is a mechanic, the noise had all but stopped. difference being that i was going much slower i guess. so i dropped it off any my friend took it out for spin and he said he couldnt get it to make the noise. so he put new fluid in the transfer case thinking that might be it. i wa skeptical bc it was serious metal on metal noise. he said the fluid that came out of the transfer case he had never seen blacker (gulp). i picked the car up and sure enuf that noise stopped for like 6 weeks - even out on the highway...then im on the highway and the noise starts up again only more pronounced and constant...ie up a gradient or down one. so i take it to my friend and drive him around so he can hear it. he does. we put it up on the lift and put the car in idle. he says he thinks its in the driveshaft. so he sends it out and they replace the CV joint as well as the u-joint on the axle. got the car back and that noise is gone. BUT the noise that i originally posted this post for is still there.
Again it is a noise that when i am starting from 0 mph and accelerating thought the gears (not going crazy fast or anything - ie when u start from a light and go on an entrance ramp to get on a highway) it shudders at like 45mph. is sounds EXACTLY like when you are pulling up to a toll booth and you drive over those perpendicular ruts they put in the road to wake you if you are asleep.
some fine folks on this site thot maybe it was the Torque Converter or maybe the engine missing. the engine really seems to run great.
thanks