its not fair :(

[93Ranger]

i was at the store today, and this completely riced out honda parks in front of me. its got the fake pnuematic wing on the back, lowered by cutting the springs (my buddy checked), just rice.

im like "WTF?" and as soon as i say that, this HOT girl walks out.

now looking at other girl's rides, they dont do to much rice, espically because she wasnt asian (no offense to asians, but im just stating that very few American women drive japenese imports that are 'riced' out)

and she wasnt your average hot girl. she had that look in her eyes that said "haha, my boyfriend is dick and im stealing his car and im going to get drunk and set it on fire", you know that look? yea, thats a hot look.

but back to why thats not fair...

this hot girl could have been with me (hopefully without that 'im gonna set my boyfriends car on fire' look in her eyes) in my ranger going offroad. but instead she is driving some riced out road toad.

not fair i tells ya.

 

[jimbo74]

dont worry...we have all been in a situation like that...... i am kinda in one now..my friends fiancee has a younger sister..we click together so well but she doesnt want a relationship b/c her last one was with a guy that treated her like crap... his name was also the same as mine (James) to her i am called Jim....her family and i are pretty close too...but i think all we will ever be is friends but still ok becuase i care about her....

 

[mattadams]

yeah life ain't fair man. That's why the hot chicks and the girls with the great personalities (it DOES count, LOL) always seem to go for the guys that treat them like crap, then when they finally get out they find some nice guy then rip his heart out by going back because the a-hole promises that he'll be good to her again, ad you know he won't be.
It sucks to be a nice guy sometimes . ANd any girl that says that she wants a nice guy is flat out lying because deep down all women don't want to be treated nice. I know the women here will disagree, but I can guarantee that most of them have been in a situation with an a-hole boyfriend that they didn't leave him because they felt it was their fault, or that they could "correct his personality problems" or whatever and ended up getting treated miserably for long periods of time as a result of it.
Mean guys suck.:frustrate

 

[rustytr]

I saw a ricer girl at Denny's on Monday. Crazy man, carazy. Anyway, maybe she's just a ricer?

 

[McFumo]

Originally posted by mattadams
yeah life ain't fair man. That's why the hot chicks and the girls with the great personalities (it DOES count, LOL) always seem to go for the guys that treat them like crap, then when they finally get out they find some nice guy then rip his heart out by going back because the a-hole promises that he'll be good to her again, ad you know he won't be

So very true...

 

[tbomb]

lemme tell ya, one of my best friends is a member of a bunch of probe clubs; a lot of them rice out their probes, but not all of them (my friends isnt riced out.) anyway, theres a lot of chicks, HOT chicks, with riced out probes. its a damn shame. what are they thinking? any chick that has that typical ricer attitude (ya know, stereotypically, theyre all immature, thinking theyre the ****, wanna fight and dumb **** like that), i wouldnt wanna deal with anyway, besides, my girlfriend would kick my ass (luckily my girlfriend likes trucks/suvs )

 

[Kontrol-Trak]

Maybe it's just her bf's car

 

[Raceit]

I heard this from a very wise man.

"No matter how bueatiful a woman is, you can be garenteed that there is a man that is sick and tired of putting up with her ****."

...words to live by.

 

[93Ranger]

Matt, your damn right.

Truest words ive heard in a long time on this topic,
"Nice guys finish last
You're running out of gas
Your sympathy will get you left behind
Sometimes you're at your best
When you feel the worst
Do you feel washed up like piss going down the drain" ~ GreenDay, Nice Guys Finish Last.

those crazy kid's know their stuff

 

[X24]

I have a question. There is this girl that i have liked for a long time. she has a boyfriend that has cheated on her and he doesnt go to college and he doesnt work. all he does is sit around and do drugs (she isnt into the whole drug thing). anyway, she has been with him for over 3 years.
i was at this party with her (her boyfriend wasnt there) and she was a little drunk and i was talking to her and she told me that if she wasnt going out with her boyfriend that we would be going out and that if i worked at it a little harder i might be able to get her. the next day she didnt remember anything. i didnt tell her what she told me. my question is, when you are drunk, don't you tell the truth even if it is something that shouldnt be said? at least thats the way it is for me and most of my friends. i just dont know what to do.

 

[McFumo]

I say leave her be. If she's too stupid to leave him, I wouldn't risk dating her.


And alchohol does tend to make you say things you don't mean. Your just spillin words.

For example, hey baby you sure are beautiful.

Or... ya, I got a mansion in the next town over....

 

[mattadams]

well some people don't always tell the truth when there drunk but also some people can be much more suprisingly honest then they'd be if they were sober. I'd say your goal should be to show her how you are better then he is without actually being like "I'm better then him this way", just do things for her you know he never would. It won't work right away (well depending on the girl) but be persistant .

 

[tbomb]

ever hear the expression, "the truth is in the wine?"

 

[rpenner54]

Matt is a man of wisdom! LOL Don't worry Matt someday you will find a nice chick... LOL I did! I can't say anything else on this topic because of my views and my big mouth! LOL

Originally posted by mattadams
yeah life ain't fair man. That's why the hot chicks and the girls with the great personalities (it DOES count, LOL) always seem to go for the guys that treat them like crap, then when they finally get out they find some nice guy then rip his heart out by going back because the a-hole promises that he'll be good to her again, ad you know he won't be.
It sucks to be a nice guy sometimes . ANd any girl that says that she wants a nice guy is flat out lying because deep down all women don't want to be treated nice. I know the women here will disagree, but I can guarantee that most of them have been in a situation with an a-hole boyfriend that they didn't leave him because they felt it was their fault, or that they could "correct his personality problems" or whatever and ended up getting treated miserably for long periods of time as a result of it.
Mean guys suck.:frustrate

 

[Maranda]

Wow, I just learned about this last night. Here is a big theory in domestic violence/codependent/jerk people and why people go for them.

People can actually be addicted to people. Like drugs, like drinking, etc. Men and women can have that addiction, "I know he/she's no good for me, I'm not gonna call him. I will end it..." Then it's "just one more time, look he's being nice" ("tweaking" for the drink, the drug) Then you call, hook up, whatever, (the fix) they treat you good for a time then it's back to crappy, and you feel worse and vow not to do it again. (the withdrawl).

And this is based on obsessive-compulsive disorder, that is the root. Most of us have it but keep it somewhat controlled (fluffing pillows before you leave home, being a neat freak), and obsessive compulsive can be a genetic trait that can be passed on when your parents have addictive behaviors. So even if a family member is a compulsive gambler, you could end up showing your obsessions(don't call, don't think about him) and compulsions (I called that jerk again, I let him sweet talk me) through being in addictive relationships. People excuse this weirdness with "but I LOVE him/her" or "but she LOVES me". Most of us are pretty messed up I tell ya! LOL

SO... supposedly it's a true addiction to the bad boys/girls. Immaturity and inexperience just makes it worse. Why didn't we learn this stuff in grade school? I love my class.

 

[mattadams]

Maranda, you've never heard my speech on why nice guys finish last and if I was an ass I'd totally be hooked up by now? LOL. Sometime I'll give it to you.
It's one of matts greatest hits!

 

[mahieber]

The only thing any of my 3 wives had in common was they liked being treated like a woman. The first one didn't last because of my drinking and my general compulsive/obsessive behavior. The second one didn't last because I quit drinking and started going to church. The current one (and the last one) puts up with me, but I know she is waiting until I die so she can have a garage sale.

If she dies first, I am going to find the ugliest woman in town, just buy her a house, and then move all of my stuff to Mexico.

 

[Maranda]

Originally posted by mattadams
Maranda, you've never heard my speech on why nice guys finish last and if I was an ass I'd totally be hooked up by now? LOL. Sometime I'll give it to you.
It's one of matts greatest hits!

I think I have only heard a little of that one. Is that the greatest hits cd that also contains such hits as "My f150 Rox" and "I Will Only Wear a Tux Once"?

Ryan isn't too much of an ass (to me anyway) haha, but it did take about 21 years for someone to notice, being the dreaded "nice guy" and all.

 

[rpenner54]

Originally posted by Maranda



Ryan isn't too much of an ass (to me anyway) haha, but it did take about 21 years for someone to notice, being the dreaded "nice guy" and all.

Hey now! LOL I am not an ass to anyone that doesn't deserve it!