okay...i got it...for the drivers door unlock relay....
get a factory ford relay...one of the small relays with 5 pins...now put it in the relay box in the jack compartment and make sure you have the pins for them...all 5 pins will be used...remember now, the size of the wire will be very important...use the same size as the the other wires coming off of the unlock relay...(black/white & pink/orange wires) or you fry the wires if you use small wires...
now take the light green wire coming off the RAP module pin 1....connect it to pin 2 on the relay you put in.
for 4 doors:
connect pin 1 and pin 5 to pin 87 (black/ white wire) off of the unlock relay.
then connect pin 4 to pin 30 (pink/ orange wire) off of the unlock relay.
BOTH 2 & 4 DOORS: now the hard part....run your wire off of pin 3 to the driver's door...and find a red/orange wire underneathe the floor trim by kick panel...if not there, then ford didnt run that wire...your other option will be to run the wire off of pin 3 to the driver's door...disconnect that connector in the door jam and on the male side pin 34, there should be a pink/ orange wire coming out, splice your wire into it...or check the female side if there is a red/orange wire coming off of pin 34...
that should work...i havent done it yet...but i did research this further in for the unlock driver's door on the remote so you dont have to push the button twice to unlock it...
now for 2 doors...
connect pin 1 and pin 5 to pin 1 (86 if it is a big relay) (black/ white wire) off of the unlock relay...
then connect pin 4 to pin 3 (30 if it is a big relay) (pink/ orange wire)...off of the unlock relay...
for pin 3....see above descriptions...for 4 doors...
And there you have it...if you want to wait until i do it, and make sure that this is right...that is fine, or you can go ahead and give it a shot...