Yup, he is right. You can pop in an LED 194 bulb replacement for your third brake, but, you need to use a 25 ohm resistor or your ABS light will come on and your cruise may stop working. 912 and 194 are interchangeable in case you are confused btw. The difference between a 194 and a 912 is the size and shape of the bulb part, not the socket, and they are DARN close.
The way the ABS and cruise works, they wait for voltage to be applied to the brake lights to shut off the cruise or activate the ABS. With an LED in there, because they take so little power and have little resistance, the system thinks the light is on.
Dome and door lights are all 194, dash lights are all 194 (though there are some you should leave incandescent because the system doesn't work properly if the lights are too low of resistance) and the cargo light is a festoon bulb... I can't remember the part number.
Tail lights are 3157 as are front turn signals. Reverse light is a 3156 (3157s add an extra filament so you can actually put a 3157 in place of them) and front marker lights are 194. Don't use any of the 3157 bulb replacements, I have yet to see one that is actually as bright as they should be. If you want to replace any of those bulbs, try some of the high wattage LEDs like the ELEF 5w or at least 3w