ever since i put my diamond headlights in i get flashed all the time and the finger thrown at me from people i'm behind who think my highs are on. i had silverstars in and i took them out about a month ago and sold them because they were rediculously bright. but even with stock lights i still get flashed. they are alighned and aimed correctly by the way. is there a light out there that isn't that bright. i heard that some of those blue lights look good but don't give off much light which is actually good for my situation. anyone confirm this or have any thoughts? thanks.