Sorry for the late response Burns -- I saw you're reply this morning but never got around to replying before I left for work.
Assembling them or rebuilding them is cake. For assembly, all you have to do is use the pronged tool to start the threaded end-plug -- just turn it enough so that it has a few threads gripping the outer shell. Then you use the included washer with a large socket to initially drive in the first UHMW plastic bushing (from the other side) all the way agains the plug you just threaded. Then place the central body sphere thingy and then drive in the next bushing. Then, with the large washer still in place, install the snap ring. Then you set the pre-load by tightening down the threaded end plug.
The pronged-tool requires a 1/2" socket driver so I just typically use a medium sized 1/2" wrench or a medium breaker bar to set the pre-load -- just tighten it as much as you can w/o having an aneurysm
Even though the plastic bushing material is supposed to be self-lubricating (either UHMW polyethylene, Delrin/Acetal, or HDPE), I still try my best to put some dry lubricant during rebuilds. These dry lurbricants perform better in off-road situations even when compared to synthetic grease (the type you can find from most auto stores) because they dont attract dirt. Such lubricants are available at most bike shops, just as them for some "dry chain lube"
Dont forget that there are (or at least there were a year ago) two sizes of RE SuperFlex joints - small and large. There is also the "Builder's ball" which is even larger than the large SuperFlex. But yeah that price is about how much I paid for mine. I may have paid a few dollars cheaper but that was a year ago.
EDIT -- here I found it for $43 with free shipping:
http://www.performanceoffroadcenter.com/oscommerce/product_info.php?products_id=228 . PORC is where I got my set from. Usability of PORC's website has gone down recently, navigation is the absolute suck with that dropdown thing, but if for some reason that link doesnt work, just type in "Re3792" in the Search field on the left column.