Welcome David. If that is the plan, than why not start by saving money with this forum. Search on here to decide on the best shocks for what you want the truck for. Then buy them yourself, that will be cheaper than a lot of retail shops which mark up the parts. Surely you can find some place locally that will change the shocks.
As for the ARC, the old OEM versions had wiring going to them also for shock valving. It only functioned during 4WD Low, which is rarely used, and replacement shocks don't have that. Just zip tie those wire connectors off to the side to another wire or frame member etc. They will not be used after you disable the system. The error messages will continue and the compressor run until you disable the system. To do that simply disconnect the two harnesses at the module. The ARC module is directly to the right of the radio in the dash. Remove the radio bezel, then you can get at the two ARC connectors. They go into the module from the top, the module is standing up along the right inner side of the radio opening. Just unplug those and you shouldn't be able to tell that it has ARC afterwords. Regards,