When I reinstalled those two bolts, I was using air tools so I didn't really torque them to any specs, but if I had to guess, 85-90 foot pounds would be about right.
Just inside those two frame bolts are two cover bolts, were you able to get them out? There isn't much room to get at them, but if you removed them the cover should pop off and the diff should stay put. The diff is supported by another bolt close to the drive shaft so I don't think the diff can go anywhere.
You might want to consider how you are going to keep crap from falling into the diff as you remove the cover. On mine, the top part of the housing seemed to collect a lot of stuff from the road and you don't want that getting into the diff. Another concern would be cleaning up the diff surface (part still attached to the truck) so when you reinstall the cover, it doesn't leak.
Good luck.