The wires for the VSS, for mine at least, are grey/black and pink/orange. You can check right at the VSS to be sure. If you cant find them in that bundle, they go right into the PCM.
Just being honest here, but it seems to me that you don't have the time or the skills to fix this yourself. I don't mean that in a bad way at all, but there are 12+ pages on this forum and the truck has made little progress. I think you should look at getting another vehicle unless you can pay someone to fix it.