I would assume that the U.S. and EU fuel pressures should be the same (around 65-67 PSI) for a 2000 Explorer, due to the return-less style fuel system. Even the older pre '99 return-style fuel systems are supposed to produce 35-40 PSI.
The the 1999-2001's return-less fuel system pressure regulator is located on the fuel pump assembly, just above the fuel pump, inside the fuel tank. If you said you've replaced the complete fuel pump assembly at some point I don't recall. That's the only way to replace the fuel pressure regulator, as far as I know, because I don't believe it's available separately. If the regulator is bad you would not achieve optimal fuel pressure. If either of the two short pieces of rubber fuel line are cracked/split/loose you would also loose fuel pressure. If the two pieces of in-tank fuel line are not rated for submersible use they will deteriorate and leak over time.
The first Explorer/Mountaineer fuel pump I replaced I installed an Aixtex brand pump. It died within 10k. Just stopped working. Since then I've used Bosch #69128 fuel pumps 6 times (in 6 different vehicles) have had excellent success with them and the vehicles now have a combined 100,000+ miles over 6 years.
The fact that your pumps still ran, but didn't produce adequate pressure, makes me think your problem may not be fuel pump related. With the exception of my one Airtex pump, all 6 of my OE fuel pumps flat out just stopped working (would not run at all) or worked intermittently. Your repeated low fuel pressure makes me think a bad fuel pressure regulator, split hose or obstruction in the fuel line/fuel filter, or even low voltage/bad ground to the pump.
I don't know what else to tell you. Repeatedly replacing fuel pumps doesn't make sense. What are the odds of getting multiple bad pumps? What is it Einstein said? "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity."
In my experience, most mechanics are arrogant, lazy and don't do proper diagnostics for a problem, preferring to just throw parts at it. That's why I do most of my own repairs. When I purchase a part I'm 99% sure it's going to fix my problem. On the rare occasion I take my vehicle to my mechanic, I know exactly what's wrong with it, I just don't want to fix it myself.
Diagnostic time is expensive because it's very time-consuming, requires patients, skill and analytical ability.